That's what I said to my friend today when he asked if wearing a suit was acceptable for the function he was going to attend.
See, that might seem...rude...but he was doing something that I was trying to talk him out of. My point was this: what you're doing is not acceptable and you know it, there will be repercussions and they will pretty much bury you. He understood and made his own decision. That's what life is all about.
You can offer advice, you can offer help...but you can't change anyone but yourself.
